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Tuesday, March 14, 2006

Eye contact

My lovely wife has often made mention of how important eye contact is in communication. I've noticed in myself a hesitance to maintain eye contact when I am unsure of myself or otherwise feeling "off". I generally have (lately) tried to catch myself in these moments and sally forth eye to eye.

So I read with interest the beginning of this article by Jonah Goldberg:
One of my favorite tidbits about Hollywood that I've gleaned from the starstruck press is that a great many of its most accomplished stars don't allow their staffs to look them in the eye. I'm not making this up. It has been reported that Barbra Streisand not only discourages eye contact among staff, but that she required hotel workers to leave her presence only by walking backward. Jennifer Lopez — who had 75 attendants help her prepare for a cameo on Will & Grace — is also reputed to forbid her subalterns to look into the windows of her soul. Sylvester Stallone won't stand for such effrontery, and Tom Cruise likes to ban eye contact, too, at least while he's working.
Goldberg goes on to write a decent piece on hubris and liberalism in Hollywood, largely represented both today by George Clooney.

Author's note (2006.03.15-10:30): my lovely wife mentioned last evening that she thought the Goldberg piece disjointed - that it really was 2 pieces and that he didn't tie them together well. I thought this as well. What say you?

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